The app blocker that teaches you to feel.

Glimmer pauses the apps you scroll, asks what you're feeling, and teaches you to feel it. You numb yourself less with your phone.

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What are you feeling?

fast, and not good Turn the stone. Tap the feeling to choose it.

The check-in you get before Instagram opens. Turn the stone.

Forty-eight words for what you might be feeling.

Sound familiar?

You already know it's too much.

53% of US adults say the same about their phone.

  • “Where did the evening go?”

    85 pickups a day

    An app logged real phone use for two weeks. People picked up about 85 times a day and guessed 37. More than half of those uses lasted under 30 seconds.

    Andrews, Ellis, Shaw & Piwek, PLOS ONE, 2015. 23 people.

  • “I didn't even mean to open it.”

    89% start with you, not a ping

    Researchers filmed 1,130 pickups in daily life. In 89% the person reached for the phone on their own. Only 11% followed a notification.

    Heitmayer & Lahlou, Computers in Human Behavior, 2021. 37 people wearing small cameras.

  • “I feel worse after, not rested.”

    41% sleep worse

    41% of US adults say their phone hurts their sleep. 34% say it hurts how much they get done.

    Pew Research Center, 2026. A survey of 9,750 US adults.

  • “I was right there and I missed it.”

    2 in 3 parents say so

    68% of parents say their phone at least sometimes distracts them when they are with their children. 51% of people in a relationship say their partner is distracted by a phone when they are trying to talk.

    Pew Research Center, 2020, parents. Pew Research Center, 2020, couples.

  • “I set a limit. Then I tapped past it.”

    ignored 2 times in 3

    When a timed lock let people carry on anyway, they went past it 64% of the time.

    Lu, Zheng, Zhang, Xu & Guo, CHI 2024. A five-week field study with 42 people.

  • “So why do I keep doing it?”

    It gets you away from a feeling, fast.

    When people were stressed they went for their phone, and their own phone calmed them more than a laptop or someone else's phone did. People who find it hard to tell what they are feeling also have more trouble controlling their phone use.

    Melumad & Pham, Journal of Consumer Research, 2020, four studies. Ding and colleagues, Frontiers in Psychology, 2022, a review of 110 studies.

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  • Just over half of US adults (53%) say they spend too much time on their phone. 45% tried to cut back in the past year, and a quarter of those say it went very well. 41% say their phone hurts their sleep, and 34% how much they get done. Pew Research Center, 2026. A survey of 9,750 US adults, May 26 to June 1, 2026.
  • People used their phone about 85 times a day and guessed 37. More than half of those uses lasted under 30 seconds. Andrews, Ellis, Shaw & Piwek, PLOS ONE, 2015. An app logged the real use of 23 people for two weeks and compared it with their own estimates.
  • 89% of the times people picked up their phone, they started it themselves. Only 11% followed a notification. Heitmayer & Lahlou, Computers in Human Behavior, 2021. 37 people wore small cameras; 1,130 pickups were filmed in daily life.
  • 68% of parents say their phone at least sometimes distracts them when they are spending time with their children. Pew Research Center, 2020. A survey of 3,640 US parents, March 2020.
  • 51% of people in a relationship say their partner is at least sometimes distracted by their phone when they are trying to talk. Pew Research Center, 2020. A survey of 4,860 US adults, October 2019.
  • When a timed lock let people carry on anyway, they went past it 64% of the time. Lu, Zheng, Zhang, Xu & Guo, CHI 2024. A five-week field study with 42 people.
  • When people were stressed they went for their phone, and their own phone calmed them more than a laptop or someone else's phone did. Melumad & Pham, Journal of Consumer Research, 2020. One field study and three experiments.

Why not just lock the app?

Why do you most often reach for your phone?

Pick one, then scroll. First with an app blocker, then with Glimmer.

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The other way

A month later, you feel more.

23 check-ins

  • Kinder to yourself
  • More there for family and friends
  • A wider range of feelings, a richer day
You feel more of your feelings, so you numb less.

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A wider range of feelings went with less depression and fewer doctor visits, across 37,000 people.

How it works

Every time you reach, four moments.

  1. 1

    It comes up.

    You open Instagram. Glimmer comes up first, and Instagram waits.

  2. 2

    You pause.

    One breath, before anything else. Instagram waits.

  3. 3

    You name the feeling.

    Turn the stone to the group, then find the word. About ten seconds.

  4. 4

    Move on, or stay with it.

    Close Instagram, or go in on purpose. Or stay, and Glimmer teaches you to feel it: the feeling in, the resistance out.

The phones are drawn from the app in testing, with the app's own diamond. Longer sessions, for feelings like anger, sadness and restlessness, arrive after launch.

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  • With a short pause before their apps opened, people opened those apps 57% less by week six. Grüning, Riedel & Lorenz-Spreen, PNAS, 2023. A six-week study of people using another app, one sec. It had no comparison group.
  • When the question was built into unlocking the phone, people logged how they were about twice as often as with a diary app and reminders: 16 times a day against 8. Zhang, Pina & Fogarty, CHI 2016. 24 people over 18 days.
  • Adults taught to notice their feelings and accept them had a smaller stress reaction, in stress hormone and blood pressure, than adults taught only to notice. Lindsay and colleagues, Psychoneuroendocrinology, 2018. A randomized trial of a two-week phone course with 153 stressed adults.

Try it now

What are you feeling right now?

This is the check-in from the app. Turn the stone, find the word, and if you like, breathe with it for a moment.

Why feel it

Scrolling is the quick way out. It costs more.

The feeling is still there when you put the phone down.

Scroll it away

Feel it instead

The first minute

You feel better right away.

You spend ten seconds with the feeling.

An hour later

The feeling is back. The hour is gone.

The feeling is smaller. You still have the hour.

A month in

Good feelings get duller too.

Naming a feeling takes seconds.

A year in

You feel less close to people.

You put off hard things less.

Take the ten seconds.

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What you get

Four things change. In this order.

  1. 1Day one

    You stop blaming yourself.

    Shame is a feeling too, and people scroll to get away from it. With no streak to lose and no score, there is nothing to fail at. In experiments, people who were kind to themselves about a slip were more motivated to put it right.

  2. 2Week one

    You get your evenings back.

    Every pause is a chance to notice you didn't want the app. In a six-week study of another pause app, one sec, people opened the apps they had paused 57% less by the end. Each time you leave it closed is time you keep.

  3. 3Month one

    The urge gets weaker.

    The urge is a feeling asking to be avoided. Putting a name to it quietens the part of the brain that reacts to threat, so there is less to get away from, and the urge has less behind it.

  4. 4After that

    You show up better.

    People who can tell their feelings apart act on them less rashly, and people who feel a wider range of them report better health. Feel more of your own, and other people's make more sense too.

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What's different

Two things people try. Glimmer does both, better.

What you wantLock appsMood trackersGlimmer
Stops the scrollYesNoYes
Deals with the feeling underneathNoYesYes
Shows up at the moment you need itYesNoYes
No guilt, no streaks to loseNoNoYes
You stay in chargeNoYesYes
Teaches you to feel itNoNoYes
How you end upOften ashamed and frustratedYou forget to open itYou feel more

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  • 17% of US adults have used an app to track or limit their screen time. Of those, 39% say it was not very or not at all effective. YouGov, 2025. Two surveys of about 1,100 US adults each, 2025.
  • A month after installing a mental-health app, about 3 people in 100 were still opening it. For apps that track mood, about 6 in 100. Baumel and colleagues, Journal of Medical Internet Research, 2019. Real usage of 93 apps.
  • When the question was built into unlocking the phone, people logged how they were about twice as often as with a diary app and reminders: 16 times a day against 8. Zhang, Pina & Fogarty, CHI 2016. 24 people over 18 days.

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Six findings Glimmer is built on.

23 studies, each one linked. Nobody has put them together at the moment an app opens. We intend to be the first.

  • You pick up your phone far more than you think.

    About 85 times a day. People guess 37.

    Studies 1 2 3 4

  • A gentle pause beats a hard lock.

    People got past a hard lockout two times in three, and went along with a gentler prompt 62% of the time. With a pause before their apps opened, people opened them 57% less by week six.

    Studies 5 6 7

  • Naming a feeling calms the body.

    Putting a feeling into words lowered the stress response, with no effort to calm down.

    Studies 8 9 10 11

  • Accepting a feeling is easier on the body than hiding it.

    Hiding it strained the heart. Accepting it meant a smaller stress-hormone rise.

    Studies 12 13 14 15

  • You get better at noticing.

    Eight weeks of practice improved how well people sensed their own state.

    Studies 16 17 18 19

  • A slow breath helps. So does a kind tone.

    Slow breathing lowered stress across twelve trials. Kindness to yourself beat pride for changing.

    Studies 20 21 22 23

All 23 studies, one by one
1People use their phones far more often than they thinkPhone use · PLOS ONE, 2015

Twenty-three people had their phone use recorded by an app. They used their phones about 85 times a day on average, more than half of those for under 30 seconds, and estimated 37.

It is a small study from 2015. It shows how automatic picking up a phone is; the exact number will differ for you.

Andrews, Ellis, Shaw & Piwek · Read the study
2Most phone use starts with you, not with a notificationPhone use · Computers in Human Behavior, 2021

Researchers observed 37 people's phone use in daily life and counted 1,130 interactions. The user started 89% of them; a notification started the rest.

The sample is small, and phones were often on silent, which lowers the share a notification could start.

Heitmayer & Lahlou · Read the study
3Stressed people reach for their phones for comfortPhone use · Journal of Consumer Research, 2020

Across one field study and three lab experiments, people under stress were more likely to seek out their own smartphone, and using it relieved stress more than the same activity on a laptop or on someone else's phone.

We could read only the abstract, so sample sizes are not given here. The studies show the phone soothes in the moment. They did not test what happens to the feeling afterwards.

Melumad and Pham · Read the study
4Boredom and low mood go with problematic phone usePhone use · Social Science Computer Review, 2018

In a survey of 298 American college students, proneness to boredom explained part of the link between depression or anxiety and problematic smartphone use.

A one-time survey of students. It cannot show which causes which, and the link was with problematic use, not with how often people used their phones.

Elhai and colleagues · Read the study
5A pause before an app opens changes what people do nextBehavioural friction · PNAS, 2023

Among 280 people who kept using the app one sec for six weeks, a short pause before entry led them to close the app on 36% of attempts, and they opened their target apps 57% less by week six.

Seven hundred and nineteen people signed up and those who dropped out were not counted. Participants chose to use the app and there was no control group. This is evidence about one sec, not a measured result for Glimmer.

Grüning, Riedel & Lorenz-Spreen · Read the study
6Time away from mobile internet improved wellbeing and attentionBlocking · PNAS Nexus, 2025

In a randomized trial, 467 people agreed to block all mobile internet on their phones for two weeks. On average their mental health, wellbeing and ability to sustain attention improved.

Only about a quarter kept the block on for the required time. The study blocked the whole mobile internet, which is a stronger step than pausing a few apps.

Castelo, Kushlev, Ward, Esterman & Reiner · Read the study
7Hard lockouts get bypassedDigital self-control tools · CHI 2024; ACM TOCHI, 2023

In a five-week study with 42 people, a lockout screen modelled on the “ignore limit” prompt was accepted 36% of the time, so people got past it roughly two times in three. A gentler method was accepted 62% of the time.

A separate review of tools like these warns that people may abandon ones that feel too aggressive, and notes that few studies follow use over the long term. Neither study measured guilt.

Lu, Zheng, Zhang, Xu & Guo · Read the study Monge Roffarello & De Russis · Read the review
8Putting a feeling into words calms the body's response to itAffect labeling · Psychological Science, 2007 and 2012

In a brain-imaging study of 30 people, labeling the emotion in an upsetting image reduced the response of the amygdala. In a study of 88 people afraid of spiders, those who put their fear into words showed a lower physical stress response a week later than the other groups.

In the spider study, how afraid people said they felt did not differ between groups. Both are laboratory studies. Neither shows that a check-in on a phone reduces scrolling.

Lieberman and colleagues · Read the study Kircanski, Lieberman & Craske · Read the study
9Precise words for feelings go with less rash behaviourEmotion differentiation · Emotion, 2022

A meta-analysis of 17 studies found that people who distinguish their negative feelings more precisely were somewhat less likely to respond with behaviours such as binge drinking or self-injury.

The link is small (r = −.15) and is an association. It does not show that learning more feeling words causes the change.

Seah & Coifman · Read the study
10Naming works without trying to calm downNaming feelings · Emotion Review, 2018

A review of research on putting feelings into words concludes that it produces effects like those of deliberate emotion regulation, without the person setting out to regulate anything.

A narrative review by researchers whose own lab did much of the work. They write that labelling can dampen emotion, and that how it works is still an open question.

Torre and Lieberman · Read the study
11Precise words went with less drinking on hard daysNaming feelings · Psychological Science, 2010

106 underage social drinkers kept an electronic diary for three weeks. Among those feeling intense negative emotion, people who were better at describing their emotions drank less.

A correlational study of young drinkers, and the pattern held for people feeling strongly negative. It does not show that learning more words would change what anyone does.

Kashdan and colleagues · Read the study
12Hiding a feeling takes physical effortSuppression · Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 1997

180 women watched sad, neutral and amusing films, and half were asked to hide their reactions. Hiding had no effect during the neutral film. During the emotional films it increased sympathetic activation of the cardiovascular system.

A lab study of women watching films. In an earlier study by the same authors the picture was mixed: heart rate fell while other signs of activation rose. Not every measure moves the same way.

Gross and Levenson · Read the study
13Thoughts you push away tend to come backSuppression · Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1987

Students asked not to think of a white bear for five minutes later thought about it more than students who had been free to think about it from the start. A 2020 review of 31 studies found the rebound in later experiments too.

The first experiment had 34 students, and later reviews put the effect at small to moderate. These studies are about thoughts. Glimmer applies the idea to feelings by analogy.

Wegner and colleagues · Read the study
14Accepting feelings goes with better mental healthAcceptance · Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2018

Across three studies (a survey of 1,003 people, a lab stress task with 156, and a diary with a six-month follow-up of 222), people who tended to accept their feelings and thoughts rather than judge them had better psychological health, in part because stress brought up less negative emotion for them.

Acceptance was measured with a questionnaire, not taught. The studies show the two go together and cannot prove that one causes the other.

Ford and colleagues · Read the study
15Noticing plus accepting lowered the body's stress responseAcceptance · Psychoneuroendocrinology, 2018

153 stressed adults were randomly assigned to one of three smartphone trainings of 15 lessons. Those trained to notice and accept their experience had smaller cortisol and systolic blood pressure rises under a lab stress test than those trained only to notice, or given coping tips.

People in all three groups reported feeling about as stressed. There was one stress test and no follow-up, and 15 lessons is far more than Glimmer's few breaths.

Lindsay and colleagues · Read the study
16Checking in on your mood raises emotional self-awarenessSelf-monitoring · Journal of Medical Internet Research, 2012

In a randomized trial with 114 people aged 14 to 24, those who logged their mood on a phone through the day gained more emotional self-awareness than those who logged only their activities, and that gain went with fewer depressive symptoms.

This was a secondary analysis and the effect was only just statistically significant. The participants were young people with early signs of depression.

Kauer and colleagues · Read the study
17Noticing what your body is doing can be trainedInteroceptive awareness · Drug and Alcohol Dependence, 2019

In a randomized trial with 187 women in treatment for substance use, eight weekly sessions of body-awareness training improved interoceptive awareness and a physiological marker of emotion regulation, followed over a year.

The training was led by a therapist and took hours, not seconds. Self-reported emotion regulation improved only for those who attended most sessions. Glimmer is inspired by this work; it is not that training.

Price and colleagues · Read the study
18The body can react before you can say whyDecisions · Science, 1997

In a card game, 10 healthy participants began to show skin-conductance responses before choosing from risky decks, before they could explain that those decks were risky. Six patients with damage to part of the prefrontal cortex did not.

A very small study, and a disputed one. Later researchers argued that participants knew more about the game than the original tests showed, and reviewers have said the idea needs more support.

Bechara and colleagues · Read the study
19Different feelings are felt in different placesBody awareness · PNAS, 2014

701 people in Western Europe and East Asia coloured in body outlines to show where they felt each emotion. Different emotions produced consistent, distinguishable maps in both groups.

The maps are reports of where people say they feel things, not measurements of the body. Two cultural groups were tested.

Nummenmaa and colleagues · Read the study
20Self-criticism is the weaker motivatorSelf-compassion · Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2012

Across four experiments, people prompted to treat a personal failure or weakness with self-compassion were more motivated to improve than people prompted to protect their self-esteem.

These were laboratory studies and had nothing to do with phones. They are why Glimmer never scolds; they are not proof that scolding makes people scroll more.

Breines & Chen · Read the study
21Slow breathing practice lowers self-reported stressBreathwork · Scientific Reports, 2023

A meta-analysis of 12 randomized trials, involving 785 adults, found a small-to-medium effect of breathwork on self-reported stress. The authors called for more high-quality research.

Those studies tested repeated practice over days and weeks, not Glimmer's single opening breath.

Fincham and colleagues · Read the study
22Five minutes of exhale-focused breathing a day lifted moodBreathwork · Cell Reports Medicine, 2023

108 people did five minutes a day of one of four practices for a month. Breathing exercises, and exhale-focused cyclic sighing most of all, improved mood and slowed resting breathing more than mindfulness meditation.

Heart rate and heart rate variability did not differ between groups. The trial was run remotely with self-reported practice, was registered after the fact, and its mindfulness group had 24 people.

Balban and colleagues · Read the study
23Slow breathing raises a heart-rate measure tied to calmBreathwork · Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 2022

A systematic review and meta-analysis of 223 studies found that deliberately slowing the breath raises heart rate variability during a session, straight after one, and after weeks of practice.

We read the abstract only, so effect sizes are not given here. Heart rate variability is a marker in the body. It is not the same thing as feeling better.

Laborde and colleagues · Read the study

No study has yet tested naming a feeling at the moment an app opens. Glimmer itself hasn't been clinically tested. It's a wellbeing tool, not treatment for a mental health condition.

Questions

Good to know.

Will it cut my screen time?

That is what it is for. A pause like this cut app opens by 57% in six weeks in a study of a similar app. Glimmer adds what a pause leaves out: dealing with the feeling that sent you to your phone.

Why would I want to feel a bad feeling?

Because it is already there, and scrolling doesn't make it leave. Felt for a few seconds, it loosens, and the urge to scroll goes with it. Glimmer asks for a breath and a word. It never asks you to dig.

Is it a breathing exercise every time?

No. The core is one breath and one word. When a feeling needs more, there are short guided exercises, and longer sessions are on the way. You need no meditation experience.

Can I still use the apps I pause?

Yes. You pick which apps pause. After a check-in you decide: leave it closed, or go in on purpose.

Is this therapy?

No. It is a short daily practice built on the same research, for the moment you would otherwise scroll. If a feeling is too much to be with, talk to someone you trust or a professional. Glimmer is a wellbeing tool, not treatment.

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